Building a healthy marriage isn't just about communication tips—it's about a radical transformation of the heart. In this powerful session from Marriage Weekender 2026, Pastor Chris Chadwick dives into Ephesians 4 to reveal how the gospel reshapes our most intimate relationships. Discover why true "theft" in a marriage often looks like emotional disengagement or an unwillingness to engage in godly conflict, and learn how to replace bitterness with the kindness, tenderheartedness, and forgiveness modeled by Jesus Christ. Whether your marriage is thriving or struggling, this message offers practical, biblical steps to reflect the image of God in your home.
Chapters:
0:00:00 - Introduction to Ephesians 4
0:00:23 - The Theft of Emotional Disengagement
0:01:06 - Why Your Marriage Needs Godly Conflict
0:02:12 - Working Together for the Grace of Life
0:03:00 - Edifying Communication and the Spirit
0:04:10 - An Invitation to Jesus Christ
0:05:08 - The Main Point: Be Christlike
0:05:55 - Living as a New Creation
0:06:40 - Overcoming Your Past and Upbringing
0:08:15 - Our Standard is the Savior
0:08:35 - Defining Christlike Kindness
0:09:50 - The Story of Zane and the Miracle Brush
0:11:55 - Leadership Lessons in Tenderness
0:13:58 - Is It Easy to Be Married to You?
0:15:35 - Being Tenderhearted and Full of Compassion
0:17:35 - The Active Form of Grace: Forgiveness
0:19:15 - Real Offense and Biblical Repentance
0:20:42 - Accountability and Moving Forward
0:22:15 - Forgiving Without Forgetting
0:23:35 - Choosing Grace a Thousand Times a Day
We hope this message encourages you to grow deeper in your walk with the Lord and your commitment to your spouse. We invite you to listen to more life-changing messages and join us in person at Canyon Ridge Baptist Church in San Diego. Our Sunday services are held at 8:30 AM, 10:30 AM, and 5:00 PM. We look forward to welcoming you!
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